Saturday, April 4, 2009

St. Gianna's feast day

I am so blessed that this year I will be able to attend St. Gianna's feast day Mass at her shrine in Pennsylvania on April 28. I can't wait!

If you haven't yet been to her shrine and you are within driving distance, consider making the pilgrimage. It is a beautiful shrine and her gloves are available for visitors to venerate. There are many stories of women struggling with infertility praying for St. Gianna's intercession at her shrine and then becoming pregnant.

For her feast day schedule of events, just visit the shrine's website.

If you can't make it to the shrine, you can still take part in the novena with everyone from your home, and you can also print out and mail in a form with your prayer intention that will be included in the novena said at the shrine. 

I love St. Gianna and I know many of you have devotions to her as well. I really believe she is so powerful, and I need to ask for her intercession more often.

It may seem odd that a woman who was able to have four children is considered a patron saint of the infertile, but she did have two miscarriages and she obviously had an extremely difficult final pregnancy, in which she lost her life. To be completely honest, if I were to meet Gianna today - a mother of several children who had had a couple miscarriages - I probably wouldn't think she was someone who knew what I was going through at all. I would recognize that she definitely had her own struggles, but they would be worlds apart from my own. Still, I really think Gianna, now up in heaven, knows what we are suffering. Perhaps because having a big family was so important to her. Perhaps because she did have some difficulty and knew what blessings children are. Perhaps because in some small way, our choice to follow the Church's teachings on assisted reproductive technology is similar to her choice not to end the life of the child in her womb. And perhaps because now, as a saint, she has greater understanding of all suffering. I don't know. But I know she is listening and longs for us to conceive and/or adopt as much as we do.

St. Gianna, please pray for those of us who are struggling with infertility. You were obedient to God, even when it meant losing your life; help us to surrender to his will always, especially when it is difficult and seems, at times, to make no sense. You loved being a mother, and so we know you can understand our aching desire to fulfill our vocation as well. Please ask God to help us grow our families, whether through conception or adoption, and to wait patiently until our prayer is answered. Amen.

11 comments:

  1. That is a beautiful prayer, thank you for sharing. Thank you also for reminding me of her upcoming Feast Days! The shrine sent me blessed medals that were touched to her gloves. I gave one away to a very precious gift from God named Gianna (my dear friends adopted her) and the other I keep on my bedside table. I pray that each day you are one day closer to becoming a mother.

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  2. Beautiful prayer! St. Gianna's story was very powerful and humbling to me.

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  3. Very well said. Thank you for sharing that with us.

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  4. ITA about St Gianna, while not suffering the same exact way we do, still understanding very intimately how we feel.

    I am going to write this down on my calendar and make it a point to drive out there on the 28th! Wanna meet up for coffee? Are you coming up just for this? Do you and R need somewhere to stay? (I know we're not on the way back or anything, but if you are heading up to NY afterwards, you're welcome to break the trip up a bit and stay with us... we'd love to meet you both!)

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  5. Just stoppin by to say that I've missed ya!

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  6. I wish I could go with you! I really do!

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  7. i wish that PA was closer for me, i'd love to visit the shrine!

    thanks for sharing the beautiful prayer. i'm going to have A LOT o time to pray in the near future. i'll have to direct a few prayers st. gianna's way!

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  8. Thanks for your sweet comment:) I can’t believe you get to go to St. Gianna’s shrine…. I am going to print off the prayer you posted. I have heard so many great things about saint. By the way, your guest bedroom pictures look so charming and cozy. I absolutely love the curtains you sewed. I think I’ll drag out my sewing machine too. I don’t have any cute fabric scraps though…can you recommend a fabric place by chance? Hope you’re enjoying the beautiful weekend :)

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  9. i must say that I miss you! i know I already commented but i was just thinking about you. Prayers for you!

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  10. I LOVE St. Gianna too! She is one of my favorite Saints!

    I have been wanting to visit her shrine for a long time now. I've been trying to get hubby to take us on a road trip from MA to her beautiful shrine in PA, but I don't think we're going to be able to go this year. I'm so sad. I really wanted to go, see her shrine, attend the special Mass, and touch the gloves. If I could do that, I'd not only pray for myself and hubby, but everyone suffering from infertility, endometriosis, pcos, ect. Yes, I'd pray for all of us!

    Is there any way someone could tape the Mass and share it with us? Or give us a full report with photos when you arrive home? I would LOVE to hear all about it!

    I'm going to print out the prayer intentions paper and mail it in. I will also (like I do every year) pray the novena too.

    Thanks K for sharing this all this with us!

    P.S. I had my laporoscopy on April 1st and I'm home now recovering from surgery. The surgeon removed all the endometriosis and adhesians, reported I had no cysts, and guess what? My tubes are clear - they are NOT blocked like we thought! I didn't get to talk with him - the surgeon spoke with my husband because I was still in recovery at that time. He told my husband that everything is clear and we can start trying again in a few weeks!! Hooray!! I'm so excited!! I still feel a little raw though...I told my husband I feel like hamburger meat inside LOL. I'm trying to eat properly according to the endometriosis diet (no meat, no dairy, no eggs, ect.)and my husband bought me all my favorite vitamins from GNC!

    http://hailmaryfullofgrace-mt.blogspot.com/

    May God Bless you.
    Maria Therese

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