I am a little behind these days. We don't have an Advent wreath, and at this point there is really no point in getting one. I haven't bought a single Christmas present (although I don't really have many to buy) and we only just started discussing that we really should have something under the tree for the kids (but they already have so many things in our very tiny house!).
I love Christmas, of course, but I just don't go crazy with decorating and shopping and all of that. And for many years, that was at least partly because of infertility. There was even one year (perhaps the Christmas right before we met Clara) when I even refused to get a tree. And then last year - our first post-infertility - Ryan brought a tree home for us one day, but we were pretty busy with a newborn and a one-year old to do much else.
So this year we find ourselves with two babies who love Christmas carols and one who is very much into Santa Claus (seriously, what is it with that old man? We don't push him on them by any means, but all it took was her seeing him for the first time in a video last week to fall in love. Everything from there on out was, "Santa! Santa! Saaaaaaantaaaaaa!"). So there is a lot more Christmas spirit in our home these days.
We baked some Christmas cookies, at Ryan's request. I don't normally even let Clara into the kitchen (other than to eat, I'm not that bad!), but I let her bake some cut-outs with me the other day...
Her concentration was adorable.
If you look closely at her right hand, that's her private stash of dough she'd been eating/playing with/putting on the cookie sheet. Good thing I didn't give any cookies away.
And this year, because she is now apparently old enough to know and love him, we took her and Luke to see Santa for the first time...
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| The only sign she was nervous - her motherly rubbing of Luke's arm.. because, she must have thought, if I'm nervous, then baby must be too :) |
And, despite my annual hesitation, we got a tree. Really.. am I the only one who is pained by how much they cost? Ours was $44. Almost $50 for something we'll have for less than a month. Ugh. I know, that probably makes me a Grinch.
Despite the price, the tree is actually one of my favorite parts of the holiday. And the kids love it, so it's worth it. Here is Clara hugging an ornament...
They were very into decorating it. And, the next day, they were even more into un-decorating it. So we were forced to spoil the ambience by putting our baby-wall (or whatever you want to call it) in front of it. Maybe that makes me a lazy parent, but when they don't respond to ten-thousand No! Don't touch the tree!'s, I would rather avoid the issue altogether.
I saw an idea online for a felt tree that they can decorate themselves, so I made them one, hoping it would satisfy their need to play with ornaments...
Yes, Elmo is higher than Our Lady in this photo. I had hoped to take a picture with all the secular icons located near the bottom so you all wouldn't think I was a heathen.
To ensure you I'm not, here's a picture of baby Jesus...
And it's no surprise that they immediately had their favorite, and unfortunately it wasn't baby Jesus...
Do you see what Clara did the very first time she played with it? That's a cross ON Elmo. Or Bishop Elmo, as Ryan calls him. I obviously have a lot of catechizing still to do.
And because I have discovered that craft projects help rid me of anxiety (and, conveniently, cleaning does not), I made a Christmas wreath today with the leftover felt...
Thanks to my sister-in-laws for showing me how to make the felt roses. And thanks to Clara and Luke for napping at the same time.
So we're finally mostly caught up, but even if we weren't, the babies sure don't mind. And hopefully they won't mind when I wrap their birthday presents for them to re-open on Christmas morning. Just kidding!











Sweet post, love the felt tree!
ReplyDeleteAll our ornaments are now on the top of the tree and the bottom is just the lights ;)
Joseph helped us with redecoration!
aww, i loved this post too. clara is seriously the sweetest little girl ever, and i imagine pictures don't even do her justice! i just want to squeeze her!
ReplyDeleteand bishop elmo. oh you heathens! haha
The felt tree is adorable! What a cute idea! And yes, I agree about the cost of trees--it's why I bought an inexpensive artificial one several years ago (having promised never to do that!) for less than I was spending each year on a live tree. And honestly, once it's decorated, it looks just great.
ReplyDeleteGo bishop Elmo! That was hilarious!
ReplyDeleteI'm with you on the cost of trees! It's ridiculous! Love the wreath you made. You are so talented!
ReplyDeleteThat is one cute Santa picture!
ReplyDeleteThat tree is expensive. Dh and I are two lazy people who never had a tree. I guess this will change next year when the baby is old enough to enjoy it. Love the pics.
ReplyDeletehahahah Bishop Elmo....love it!
ReplyDeleteI just love this post! Kids are so funny. No matter how much we "catechize" they just gravitate towards their own things, don't they? Don't worry, when they're big they will love Our Lady more than Elmo, I promise!
ReplyDeleteSo cool to see the kids bring the joy of Christmas into your home that used to be so joyless this time of year. Yay!!!
I love your wreath! Those felt flowers are awesome!
ReplyDeleteBishop Elmo!! LMBO!! Your kids are so cute. And I totally thought re-wrapping the bday gifts was a great idea. Oops. Haha, will I be a terrible mother?
ReplyDeleteBishop Elmo! Lmao!!
ReplyDeleteI have a fake tree, but that's what I grew up with, so I don't even miss real ones... much cheaper, but set-up is a b*t*h ;)
I love how Luke is looking at Santa, hahaha!
BTW... I wasn't copying Hebrews, I read her comment after I posted mine.
ReplyDeleteJust... for the record. :P
The felt tree is such a good idea! Your kids do such the cutest things ... although it may not be so cute at the time. I just love all your stories and pics!
ReplyDeleteYou're such a good mom! :)
ReplyDeleteI find myself in the same place - I don't go overboard with Christmas and given I had a miscarriage the week of Christmas 2 years ago, we didn't even DO Christmas. So, this year (our second with Jax, but now he actually takes it all in:)), we did a tree, wreath and pictures with Santa. And I SWEAR I am going to make cookies - not sure when, though, lol! And I should tell you - we decorated the TOP half of our tree - and it worked. They seem to leave it alone except Addison does pull out the tree skirt at least a few times daily. But oh well. I may be lazy, but like you, I'm not going to say NO a million times a day and make the tree a not-fun thing for them! And have you considered a fake tree?! I know, I know, lazy mom again - but I would never do a real tree - too much money and work for this overwhelmed momma. You are doing great! I am SO jealous of your craftiness. I have not one crafty bone in my body, lol! Merry Christmas!
ReplyDeleteThat picture of the kids on Santa's lab is TOO precious!!!
ReplyDeleteWhat a great big sister she is!!
craft projects help me, too! I wish I could think of more to do! haha
ReplyDeleteLove this post, your kids are adorable~
I think you'll find that the older they get the more into Christmas you'll get. It's way more fun when they know more what's going on!
ReplyDeleteSo cute! I don't think you are a lazy parent for gating the tree. :) I think you just removed the temptation! Nice work! :) Love the felt tree too! So cute!
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